In the story of Goldilocks, she enters the home of the bears and tries each of the three bowls of porridge on the table. One is too hot, the next too cold, and the last “just right”.
Porridge is simple. Real life is hard.
There is rarely a “just right”. There’s usually a choice, a trade-off, some risk, and a bunch of remaining unknowns.
“Just right” is just an illusion.