Dan Cullum

Playing board games is one of our camping traditions.

This year, we brought 10 with us.

Not excessive, at all.

From strategy, to numbers, to cards, to words, to abstract—we’ve got a sufficient range and styles to satisfy everyone in our 8-person group.

Quite a few are 2-player games that Dad and I get a lot of mileage from, and the rest of them are a mixture of classics (i.e., Catan), and off-the-wall (i.e., Dixit).

Dad and I have a rivalry on Yinsh, an awesome 2-player that requires equal parts abstract and strategic thinking. Super easy to learn, but tremendous depth once you get into it.

Codenames has become a staple every night after dinner, as it’s a great word/guessing game for a larger group.

I’m also really enjoying Azul, because although there’s an element of competition, the goal is to complete a mosaic of tiles which makes it quite relaxing.

Full list here:

• Catan
• Ticket to Ride
• Love Letter
• Skip Bo
• Dixit
• Azul
• Yinsh
• Jaipur
• Hive
• Codenames

Let me know if you’ve got recommendations for larger groups, or if you’ve got a few family favourites!

Catching the fish and eating it is the fun part.

But it also comes with a tax: an early morning start, weather checking, route planning, boat cleaning, and quite a bit of mess.

But the tax doesn’t have to be a cost. It can also be an investment: a memory, a story, and a moment that can’t be traded.

I’ve loved going out fishing with the family over the past week. Dad did it a tonne when he was a kid, but our family only did the odd bit when I was young.

So we’re making up for it now!

It may not be fishing for you and yours, but it’s worth asking what’s the tax you’ll pay to create those most valuable memories?

I’m currently camping by the beach with family for 2 weeks.

We’re at the base of Mt Maunganui. It was our Christmas Break spot for more than a decade as I was growing up, and it’s great to be back.

With my 3-year-old nephew now on the scene, we’re taking a lot of photos. In the midst of capturing a funny moment, or new experience, there often isn’t time to set up a nice shot.

Balance. Exposure. Contrast. Saturation. Alignment. Framing.

It really doesn’t matter if what you’re trying to capture is the emotion, the moment, the memory.

When we’re framing memories, it doesn’t need to be perfect.

Part of the joy of this blog is getting messages from you folks—things that reminded you of posts, or ideas you think are worth sharing.

I wrote back in November about how nature can have a mind of its own, and how sometimes we need to build around it rather than fight it.

Lucy shared the below photo from a recent canopy walk in Thailand, and it was too stunning not to share.

It’s wonderful idea to finish the year on for a few reasons: 1) it’s good practice to reflect back on things we’ve learnt throughout the year, 2) and what we learn is always better when shared.

So thanks for joining me this year, folks! It’s been a blast.

Happy New Year, and here’s to all that’s to come.

Dad and I went cycling today along a track in the Bay of Plenty.

Almost everyone who we came across smiled and said a hearty, “Hello!”

It’s been a while since I’ve been back in New Zealand, and I missed these outdoor greetings.

It’s not that they don’t happen elsewhere—because they do—but rather that they happen so reliably and ubiquitously here.

It reminded me of Seth Godin’s idea: people like us do things like this.

Things like this are a culture, a habit, a way of life.

They don’t just happen.

Not can they be bought.

And for all things that can’t be bought, they need to be cared for, maintained, passed down, and preserved.

In many countries 911, 112, 111, and 999 all work.

When there’s an emergency, it’s unwise to be pedantic which numbers are right or wrong.

It’s better to make it as easy as possible to get hold of emergency services—no matter who you are, what country you’re in, or what number you learnt growing up.

There’s something in here we can learn for the products, services, and processes were responsible for building because, sometimes, the rules can hurt more than help.

I recently posted about Ted Lasso, and today I’m sharing my favourite scene.

It’s written around the Walt Whitman quote, “Be curious, not judgemental.”

It got me thinking about how much richer, open, and full life can be when we chose curiosity over judgment. When we approach the world wanting to learn, rather than thinking we know it all. And when we assume the best of others, of situations, and of ourselves.

I’ve been thinking a lot about ‘self-authorisation’ recently.

Self-authorisation is giving oneself permission. Permission to write, to draw, to make music, or do anything creative.

It’s been spurred on by this post by Austin Kleon, and his reflection on Verlyn Klinkenborg’s thinking in Several Short Sentences About Writing.

The problem is that as a kid grows up, at some point, they start to say, “I no longer have permission to do X.”

What causes this timidity? What drives the reluctance?

I feel it sometimes when approaching certain topics on this blog; I think: there’s so much I don’t know, and there’s so many others better qualified to speak on the matter.

I love how Klinkenborg gives us the tools to work through this fear:

“But everything you notice is important.
Let me say that a different way:
If you notice something, it’s because it’s important.
But what you notice depends on what you allow yourself to notice,
And that depends on what you feel authorized, permitted to notice
In a world where we’re trained to disregard our perceptions.

Who’s going to give you the authority to feel that what you notice is important?
It will have to be you.
The authority you feel has a great deal to do with how you write, and what you write,
With your ability to pay attention to the shape and meaning of your own thoughts
And the value of your own perceptions.

And so, each day, I try to turn up and notice. And today, with a little more self-authorisation than yesterday.

Join me.

As we’re approaching the new year, many of us are taking stock.

We’ll reflect on the year that has been, and we’ll envision what we’d like to achieve, experience, and feel in the one to come.

One habit I’ve found helpful is to let go of any expectation during this season.

It doesn’t need to be profound.

We don’t need a detailed breakdown of where things could’ve gone better, nor do we need complex—and hard to keep—resolutions.

A bit of gratitude of paper, and perhaps 1-2 big things to focus on for the next year is often more than enough.

It’s makes reflecting more enjoyable, and frames the coming year in a much more achievable light.

I’m thrilled to be reunited with my family, and understandably, all I can muster for today’s post is a massive grin!

For those celebrating today, Merry Christmas to you and yours!

I received my final negative COVID test result today, and I’m set to be released from the Managed Isolation facility on Christmas morning.

Now that I’m coming to the end of my time here, I thought I’d reflect a little on the experience.

Managed Isolation has been excellent. I really have no complaints. The staff have been attentive, polite, and helpful. The room was clean, and the food has been healthy.

My days usually started around 4 or 5am so I could catch my colleagues in London and New York for a few hours. I then had a solid block for focused work which allowed me to get ahead of a lot of planning and preparation for 2022.

I hired an exercise bike for the week, so in the afternoons I’d get in a cycle and some bodyweight exercises. I’ve played quite a bit of Starcraft II, got lost in a few YouTube rabbit holes, binged Ted Lasso, and spent time calling my family and friends.

I think the New Zealand government runs a really tight ship, and I’m so impressed by how seriously they’re taking border security. There is a reason why millions of New Zealanders will be able to enjoy a summer without the risk of Omicron, and I’m grateful.

I’ve just started watching Ted Lasso, and it’s the best series I’ve seen in a long time.

It’s the story of an American college football coach from Kansas, Ted, who is hired to manage an English Premiere League football club. The catch is Ted knows nothing about football, nor England, which sets him up for a wild set of discoveries and adventures.

Ted is likeable from his first minutes on screen, and his cast of supporting characters are equal parts hilarious and human.

There are lots of films and TV series that laugh at the cultural differences between the US and the UK—that’s well trodden territory. But what’s great about this series is the mixing of two sub-cultures I never thought I’d see together: warm mid-western and diehard English football.

You know, after 5 years living in the UK, I still don’t support a Premiere League football team. But now, I may just be a fan of the fictitious ‘AFC Richmond’ coached by Lasso.

I also love that the concept for Ted Lasso started off as an advertising skit from 2013 promoting Premiere League Football on NBC. It’s a good example of how sometimes an idea is so good that it can’t help but have a life of its own.

Every month or so I end up sharing something really random, but uber heartwarming, from the internet.

It’s usually a hobby or a project someone has worked on: like the woman who collected every Penguin book ever published, or the food history librarian who catalogs the evolution of food.

Today’s is about the man called Brady who buys a live lobster from the grocery store, and keeps him as a pet in his aquarium—a wonderful alternative to the traditional story ending.

He gives the lobster a name: Leon. He documents Leon’s eating, how he cleans and organises the aquarium, and how he regains use of his claws after a long time being bound up.

It’s wholesome internet content, and I’m all about it.

Check out Brady’s video here.

Imagine you’re going on a 3-day hike.

You’ll need to carry food, water, clothing, and a tent. You’ll need to plan what time you’ll set out, and where you’ll stop along the way. You’ll need to check the weather. You’ll also need to let someone know when they should expect to hear from you once you’re done.

When we’re going on a lengthy journey, planning is required.

Yet it’s funny how often people in the workplace just launch into meetings, writing document, or starting projects without doing the thinking upfront.

Few meetings are worth having unless we’ve prepared for what we want out of them, and what decisions need to be made to get there.

Few documents are worth reading if we’re writing them on the fly without some structure to guide us.

Few projects are impactful without a solid plan.

Doing the thinking upfront almost always pays off in the long run.

Omicron is everywhere right now. It’s currently responsible for about 40% of COVID cases in the UK.

Unsurprisingly, there were quite a few people on my Dubai to Auckland flight (almost 10%) who tested positive for COVID following their arrival.

Given New Zealand currently has an excellent grip COVID’s spread in the community, it’s understandably taking extra precautions to prevent the spread of omicron; at least until more is known about this variant.

That means I’ll be spending an additional 3 days here in hotel isolation.

The good news is I’ll be getting out on Christmas morning, so I’ll still be able to celebrate with my family, and I won’t have to do any further home isolation after my release.

Wherever you are right now, I hope you’re staying safe, and are able to be with those you love over this Christmas and New Year break.